We instinctively feel connected to or repelled by other people. Sometimes, we can explain it. Other times, we can’t. This is a basic example of energy compatibility and resonance. People resonate at a vibrational level that is comfortable for us, making them compatible. I tell people that when they’re looking for someone to help them with whatever they need, it’s easier if they choose people they feel connected with. 

People are generally happier in groups, especially when we have found our tribe. Positive groups help us grow and bring out the best in us, while negative associations do exactly the opposite. As a metaphysician, you must understand compatibility and create an environment with the people, places, and things that will expand your awareness, allow you to settle more into your power, and get you closer to being a better version of yourself.

In terms of vibration, some people resonate at a higher level, and others resonate at lower levels. In general, we fluctuate. Some days, we are high, others lower, but our energy tends to settle at a particular point on the vibration scale and operate from there. It’s our base level. As we work on developing our gifts and spiritual connection, that base level rises. Where we are at any given time is where we are supposed to be. Despite what some may say about where you are versus where you should be, you control your base level and know you can change it anytime. Where you are is not a shortcoming on your part. It’s a step on the path. If anyone makes you feel “less than” for not being where they think you should be, you might need some new friends. Find your tribe.

Hanging out with people around the same base level helps someone raise that base level. Each person brings their gifts to the group, allowing them to exercise their abilities and thus enabling the whole group to rise. At the risk of sounding elitist, you will struggle to raise your vibration if you spend all your time with people with a lower vibration than you. This is especially true for mentors and teachers who have “done the work” but look to their students for support. It’s not ideal. They are neither knowledgeable nor strong enough to support someone stronger than them without causing themselves harm. Unless that is the person’s objective. If so, that falls into the realm of cult leaders. If you are a student in this situation, I recommend breaking all connections with that person as soon as possible. 

Joining a group with a higher vibration than you can create difficulties. People with lower vibration can drag down higher vibration, meaning if the group works on something, the lower vibration will impede the effort. A higher vibration group can cause the lower vibration person to become overwhelmed and uncomfortable as their energy system isn’t yet able to process that level of energy. 

I’m not advocating for the separation of people according to energy. We all need to work together to raise everyone’s vibration to the highest level where they can be comfortable. Each person has their place. There is no hierarchy in that. People at high vibration levels are expected to do big things. People at the lower vibrational levels work on smaller projects, but both are equally important in helping humanity to become the best version of ourselves. 

If you are actively working to raise your vibration, gather those close to where you are. They can be slightly higher or lower than you. This allows the higher to not be dragged down so far and allows the lower to be pulled up by the higher. Keep in mind that this is at the base level. We all fluctuate, so there will be times when the person who is typically lower will actually be at a higher level than the person who is usually the higher vibration. Working together will bring overall balance to the group and raise the vibration, not only as a group, but individually.

Having a few friends at the same or close to your level will allow you to grow, expand, and change in ways that would be difficult to do alone. They will challenge, encourage, and support you. This is the benefit of having energy compatibility.